Mmmm hmm. I decided last night it would be a great idea to work 'til midnight and totally forgot about the time change.
It is so hard watching my mother, the strongest woman I've ever known, struggle with what's going on with her body. I don't like seeing her cry, I don't like seeing her in pain.
The one thing I have learned out of becoming her caretaker, is that I am an incredibly strong woman. Physcially and mentally. I stumble sometimes, on the mental part...but who doesn't?
LolololThis daylight savings time thing needs to p!ss right off.
I wonder if these 50 Shades of Grey movie-goers realize that internet porn is totally a thing and you don't have to pay for it anymore.
So it's a bad thing to mess with people. I used to understand "mess with" as doing pranks or jokes. How do you take practical jokes?Some people have no idea. I never understood why people mess with me. I'm always nice. The only time I'm not nice, is when you've given me a reason not to be. They don't realise that they're dealing with a psycho.
I was wondering the same thing. Who needs that movie when there's internet porn? Not to mention (and this is only my opinion) the guy playing Christian Grey was a horrible choice.
I'm glad you're strong for your mom because I'm not so strong for mine. She was diagnosed with cancer at Thanksgiving and I'm physically, emotionally and mentally worn out from being her caretaker. There's nothing I can do and she will not help herself. I stumble so much it's not even considered stumbling anymore, it's just failing to be a good daughter.It is so hard watching my mother, the strongest woman I've ever known, struggle with what's going on with her body. I don't like seeing her cry, I don't like seeing her in pain.
The one thing I have learned out of becoming her caretaker, is that I am an incredibly strong woman. Physcially and mentally. I stumble sometimes, on the mental part...but who doesn't?
So it's a bad thing to mess with people. I used to understand "mess with" as doing pranks or jokes.
I'm glad you're strong for your mom because I'm not so strong for mine. She was diagnosed with cancer at Thanksgiving and I'm physically, emotionally and mentally worn out from being her caretaker. There's nothing I can do and she will not help herself. I stumble so much it's not even considered stumbling anymore, it's just failing to be a good daughter.
Yeah, it just frustrates me that she doesn't seem to want to try and help herself, though. Like she lays on the couch all the time and she doesn't try to get out. I don't usually end up yelling at her, I get short with her a lot but most of the time I just try and walk away. I just can't take this, you know? I can't be her nurse and her daughter; it's just too much. I'm not strong enough.Don't be too hard on yourself Maggie. Sometimes I feel like I'm failing as a daughter but we can only do so much, afterall. We're only human.
Hell, sometimes my mom and I end up yelling at each other because we just get frustrated at the whole situation. My mom and I NEVER yell at each other but this bullcrap has changed that.
This is just more crap that changes us, as people, I guess...
Yeah, it just frustrates me that she doesn't seem to want to try and help herself, though. Like she lays on the couch all the time and she doesn't try to get out. I don't usually end up yelling at her, I get short with her a lot but most of the time I just try and walk away. I just can't take this, you know? I can't be her nurse and her daughter; it's just too much. I'm not strong enough.
I wish I had your confidence in this matter but I'm not sure I do. Doctors seem very hopeful that this is something we can deal with but whether or not we can deal with it emotionally is something completely different.
As if our ****ed up family hadn't been through enough already.
Reminds me of the time I ran up on a Bojangles that didn't sell buffalo bites - which is sacrilege!!! I had to settle for chicken supremes instead and it just wasn't the same.CT: I still haven't gotten my Jolly Ranchers.....I had to settle on Twizzlers instead.....
Reminds me of the time I ran up on a Bojangles that didn't sell buffalo bites - which is sacrilege!!! I had to settle for chicken supremes instead and it just wasn't the same.
The next day I went to a good Bojangles and got some buffalo bites.