What are you thinking? (Part 2)

[Turo602]

I don't normally like to talk about things like this but something great happened whilst I was out clothes shopping. I found lots of things I liked, and everything was a size smaller than what I usually have! And I almost fit into the size below too. Trying hard to lose weight is paying off. Still got a long ways to go, but this is positive proof that it's working.

I told you not swallowing your food and plenty of throwing up would work. Keep it up!

 

[Foxtrot94]

Wasn't much of a fan of Guardians of the Galaxy, but I really enjoyed the second one. Here's hoping that Wonder Woman will be as good as it looks and turn that DCEU trainwreck around.

 

[Lithium]

ct: does it start now? yes? no? ... no.... so we wait some more... at least I can watch the reactions to the new Vendetta trailer XD

 

[KManX89]

Well, this vid definitely enlightened my day. Dire Wolf made a video response to Mundane Matt where he pretty much goes out of his way to downplay a pedophile and kiddie pornographer.

To give you the rundown: a 19-year-old girl by the name of Mekenzie Leigh Guffey manipulated a 14-year-old boy into having sex with her, filmed a porno together which shows him fully nude and tried to sign up for Medicaid grants after getting herself pregnant with his child. Mundane Matt thinks it's more complicated than "throw the book at her sick ass," but Dire Wolf wasn't having any of it. Like I said time and time again (and like DW so eloquently says in the aforementioned vid response), I highly doubt he'd be saying that if it was a 19-year-old guy f**king and getting a 14-year-old girl pregnant and pornographically filming her. Great to see somebody else point out this ridiculous double standard.

The lengths Mundane Matt goes to try to defend and mitigate this piece of sh!t's actions in the video is absolutely appalling, to say the least. She's a pedophile who took advantage of a 14-year-old. And to make matters even worse, she did it for the sole intention of getting herself pregnant with a child that he can't physically or financially provide for (duh), even going as far as to try to get Medicaid supplements in his name.

If anyone should have to provide child support, it's the parents who BTW are facing possible conspiracy charges for letting the sick f**k stay at their house.

I'd say throw the f**king book at her. If the roles were reversed, there wouldn't be ANY debate as to whether or not he deserves jail time (and we all know how much prisoners HATE pedophiles, that'll end well). The fact that she's trying to take advantage of our broken AF alimony system (which has no qualms about making children pay child support even if they're raped) makes me even more furious.

25-to-life for this woman, no less.

 

[Jen]

CT: Having no self-control sucks.

... Well, I guess it doesn't suck because you get lots of nice new clothes in a short space of time.

But there's a definite feeling of guilt when you go online because a pair of crop trousers you wanted are back in stock and cost £23, but somehow you magically end up spending £120... Like, how did that happen?

 

[Venomous Oddball]

R.I.P Chris Cornell.

 

[Turo602]

R.I.P Chris Cornell.

So sudden and so tragic. Grunge is a curse.

 

[JujuLodestar]

I woke up early so I can get my hands on the Switch. I got hit with something much better. My girlfriend of 4 years had told me she cheated on me last night.

Everytime my life turns around there is always something to remind me that it's a waste of my time because nothing is ****ing worth it anymore. I struggled my entire life to find a shred of happiness. I found it. And I got stabbed in the back because of it.

Lovely.

 

[KManX89]

I woke up early so I can get my hands on the Switch. I got hit with something much better. My girlfriend of 4 years had told me she cheated on me last night.

Everytime my life turns around there is always something to remind me that it's a waste of my time because nothing is ****ing worth it anymore. I struggled my entire life to find a shred of happiness. I found it. And I got stabbed in the back because of it.

Lovely.

Damn, man, that's tragic. I honestly don't know if her straight-up telling you makes it any better as opposed to you eventually finding out the 'hard' way (because, as we all know, most cheating girlfriends stay mum about their infidelity), but either way, I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

As hard as it may seem, I hope you're able to find some shred of peace moving forward. Keep your head up and hopefully the right girl will come around who won't betray your trust. In the meantime, I'd suggest watching some romantic movies to help ease the pain. Hitch, The Notebook and High Fidelity are some films I've watched to help ease my relationship anxiety (yes, I know that feeling, too).

 

[JujuLodestar]

Damn, man, that's tragic. I honestly don't know if her straight-up telling you makes it any better as opposed to you eventually finding out the 'hard' way (because, as we all know, most cheating girlfriends stay mum about their infidelity), but either way, I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

As hard as it may seem, I hope you're able to find some shred of peace moving forward. Keep your head up and hopefully the right girl will come around who won't betray your trust. In the meantime, I'd suggest watching some romantic movies to help ease the pain. Hitch, The Notebook and High Fidelity are some films I've watched to help ease my relationship anxiety (yes, I know that feeling, too).

...That...that is something I have NEVER heard in my life. Or expected for that matter.

Watching romantic movies to numb the pain? Well ****. Can't say that didn't give me a laugh. Made my mood much better. Thank you.

However. I was rather angry about it at first but then it disappeared. I expected it to happen in my life and I suppose I made my peace on the subject long ago. And even if it's stupid of me. I forgave her for it.

I was mad and sad. But even then, I found her crying her eyes out wishing for her own misery. Full of nothing but regret and pain. And knowing her for the longest time I could tell it was genuine. I didn't have the heart or will to throw her away. I gave her another chance.

I don't know what else to say. Being hated by everyone for no reason as a younger me has made me emotionally inept. I really am over the issue. She knows what she's done. She has severed the connection with her hookup and whatnot promised undying loyalty and all that jazz.

Looking back on it. I really don't care. I know what it's like to be eaten away by the guilt she feels. It's not a very pleasant feeling it makes hell seem like a blessing. As long as she bides by my conditions we're fine. If she doesn't. Whatever. I tried.

Either way. Life is life.

If I do lose her. I don't know what I'll do. I've never lived a single day in my life for myself. Only for others. But eh. Whatever happens happens I guess.

 

[KManX89]

...That...that is something I have NEVER heard in my life. Or expected for that matter.

Watching romantic movies to numb the pain? Well ****. Can't say that didn't give me a laugh. Made my mood much better. Thank you.

However. I was rather angry about it at first but then it disappeared. I expected it to happen in my life and I suppose I made my peace on the subject long ago. And even if it's stupid of me. I forgave her for it.

I was mad and sad. But even then, I found her crying her eyes out wishing for her own misery. Full of nothing but regret and pain. And knowing her for the longest time I could tell it was genuine. I didn't have the heart or will to throw her away. I gave her another chance.

I don't know what else to say. Being hated by everyone for no reason as a younger me has made me emotionally inept. I really am over the issue. She knows what she's done. She has severed the connection with her hookup and whatnot promised undying loyalty and all that jazz.

Looking back on it. I really don't care. I know what it's like to be eaten away by the guilt she feels. It's not a very pleasant feeling it makes hell seem like a blessing. As long as she bides by my conditions we're fine. If she doesn't. Whatever. I tried.

Either way. Life is life.

If I do lose her. I don't know what I'll do. I've never lived a single day in my life for myself. Only for others. But eh. Whatever happens happens I guess.

I DO know other people who turn to these forms of entertainment to mend their love-related troubles (I know I have when I was feeling hopeless), but I guess it doesn't work for everybody.

But good to know that she feels bad about it, even had the decency to come forward with it. Most of the time, they'll blame you and act like YOU'RE the one who needs changing, this and that.

One thing I absolutely can't stand is when others tell you "you're weak/partially to blame if she leaves you for another man" or the old "take care of your girl or somebody else will." Oh yes, because girls/guys ONLY cheat when their boyfriend/girlfriend is "being lazy," fckin' A. They'll tell you this even if you're legitimately trying to keep her happy. Hell, I remember reading posts from some guy on an article about a military vet whose wife cheated on him through Ashley Madison a while back. He started posting the exact same sentiments "it's good that she left the man for being weak." This was, of course before the hack.

I can't help but look back and think she got what she deserved after the AM hack.

 

[JujuLodestar]

I DO know other people who turn to these forms of entertainment to mend their love-related troubles (I know I have when I was feeling hopeless), but I guess it doesn't work for everybody.

But good to know that she feels bad about it, even had the decency to come forward with it. Most of the time, they'll blame you and act like YOU'RE the one who needs changing, this and that.

One thing I absolutely can't stand is when others tell you "you're weak/partially to blame if she leaves you for another man" or the old "take care of your girl or somebody else will." Oh yes, because girls/guys ONLY cheat when their boyfriend/girlfriend is "being lazy," fckin' A. They'll tell you this even if you're legitimately trying to keep her happy. Hell, I remember reading posts from some guy on an article about a military vet whose wife cheated on him through Ashley Madison a while back. He started posting the exact same sentiments "it's good that she left the man for being weak." This was, of course before the hack.

I can't help but look back and think she got what she deserved after the AM hack.

I see. Well. Guess I learned something today.

Yeah. I told her to not worry about it. I already forgot it happened but she refuses to let go of the issue so easily. It's better that way. It's gonna suck for her but that way she learns.

I hate when people say stuff like that. It doesn't make sense on any front. It really doesn't. You're just justifying someone being scum.

As for the vet. My situation sucks but they must have it 1000x worse. They don't even know. They expect to come home to a loving partner but then they find out they weren't faithful or even during deployment. That REALLY sucks.

 

[mjk321]

this must have been SO awkward, I'm from west Saudi so I don't do that dance.

P.S. dont read the comments if you want to be happy

 

[Airaku]

Well, this vid definitely enlightened my day. Dire Wolf made a video response to Mundane Matt where he pretty much goes out of his way to downplay a pedophile and kiddie pornographer.

To give you the rundown: a 19-year-old girl by the name of Mekenzie Leigh Guffey manipulated a 14-year-old boy into having sex with her, filmed a porno together which shows him fully nude and tried to sign up for Medicaid grants after getting herself pregnant with his child. Mundane Matt thinks it's more complicated than "throw the book at her sick ass," but Dire Wolf wasn't having any of it. Like I said time and time again (and like DW so eloquently says in the aforementioned vid response), I highly doubt he'd be saying that if it was a 19-year-old guy f**king and getting a 14-year-old girl pregnant and pornographically filming her. Great to see somebody else point out this ridiculous double standard.

The lengths Mundane Matt goes to try to defend and mitigate this piece of sh!t's actions in the video is absolutely appalling, to say the least. She's a pedophile who took advantage of a 14-year-old. And to make matters even worse, she did it for the sole intention of getting herself pregnant with a child that he can't physically or financially provide for (duh), even going as far as to try to get Medicaid supplements in his name.

If anyone should have to provide child support, it's the parents who BTW are facing possible conspiracy charges for letting the sick f**k stay at their house.

I'd say throw the f**king book at her. If the roles were reversed, there wouldn't be ANY debate as to whether or not he deserves jail time (and we all know how much prisoners HATE pedophiles, that'll end well). The fact that she's trying to take advantage of our broken AF alimony system (which has no qualms about making children pay child support even if they're raped) makes me even more furious.

25-to-life for this woman, no less.

This is so ****ed up on every level. When I read your last paragraph I realized how people associate pedophilia and rape with being about having power and control over their victims. This woman literally was raping that boy for life. If he was expected to pay child support that means that she has continuous control over his life and assets. That's so ****ing sick how much power some can have over another. This is so messed up. I remember a year ago reading about that 20-something year old who talked a 12 or 13 year old student into sleeping with her. Apparently they were dating for a week or two before she was caught and he consented. Some people are so messed up but that kid wouldn't have known better. Not to mention from his perspective he can just tell his classmates that "he's the freaking man" and brag about it.

 

[Venomous Oddball]

Yesterday was eventful. Since my dad is a firefighter, the family got free tickets to a rock music festival so I got to see Prism, Trooper, and Loverboy, and today I'm also gonna see the Headpins, Streetheart, Honeymoon Suite, and Glass Tiger. It's harder to rock out than usual though because I hurt my wrist the other day.

 

[Jen]

CT: I'm so glad it's Sunday and I can literally do nothing. I worked Friday, went out with friends Friday night and got home at 2am, got called into work to cover for someone at 9am, went shopping after work for stuff I needed for a night out for a friend's birthday, went on that night out and got home at 5am. I also had to deal with a friend's relationship drama all night too.

I'm getting too old for all this.

 

[Turo602]

CT: I'm so glad it's Sunday and I can literally do nothing. I worked Friday, went out with friends Friday night and got home at 2am, got called into work to cover for someone at 9am, went shopping after work for stuff I needed for a night out for a friend's birthday, went on that night out and got home at 5am. I also had to deal with a friend's relationship drama all night too.

I'm getting too old for all this.

Don't stop now, you're on a roll.

 

[blivvy]

So we stopped into a pub yesterday evening and ordered a double rum and coke. All I'll say is w/e kinda rum is was it tasted horrible and was strong af lol.

But yea going to see a good ceili band next weekend. Been a while since I've been out for a good session so I'm looking forward to it.

 

[KManX89]

Well, isn't this magical? I just got back from a long day at work and came across this in my YouTube subscriptions:

No, you're not mishearing the news clip, it actually f**king happened: a guy getting bit in the mouth while attempting to kiss a diamondback rattlesnake, you can't make this sh!t up.

I don't know what's making my head hurt more: the pain this guy's enduring or the stupidity that led to it.

Let this be a daily reminder to all:

 

[Flipqy42]

CT: My vacation next month can't come quick enough. I'll finally be able to hibernate for two weeks. And with some RE sprinkled in. Gonna marathon the entire series. Even the ones of ambiguous canon.