I refuse to call myself a feminist nowadays, not because I don't believe in the cause, but because "feminism" has become a synonym for "sexism", even if many of those so-called feminists don't realise that. They don't want equality, they want women to be better than men, discriminating against every man just because he's a man, and against every woman who doesn't meet their standards of a "better" woman. Replacing the old perception of what makes a good woman with a new one isn't helping, though, in fact it doesn't change anything at all.
As an author who spends most of her free time in front of a PC writing novels, the idea of being a stay-at-home wife is actually pretty appealing to me. My hobby could be my job, which I would do just as my husband does his, but from home, and I wouldn't mind doing most of the cooking and cleaning on the side - at least in theory. The reality is that I don't have a husband (at least not in the traditional sense, see below), suck at cooking and hate cleaning, but if I had all day to do those things and not just the few hours after work, I suppose it wouldn't interfere with my free time and therefore not bother me as much. And I see absolutely nothing wrong with that, whether you're a woman or a man or anything in between.
CT: I didn't realise I've apparently been married for the last six years. Does it come with being a fag hag that my male gay friends like to call me their "wifey"? This is already my second marriage with a gay man in the last few years, and it has been a good one.