bSTAR_182
Sexually Active Member
bSTAR!!!! It's so good to see you back. And that is so true; Chris would own that furniture.
Thanks, Mag, it's good to be back!
What are you thinking? (Part 2)
- Thread starter Romero
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Thanks, Mag, it's good to be back!
bSTAR_182
Sexually Active Member
Tremor, you have every right to feel the way that you do right now because you just found out some pretty devastating news for you and your family. It doesn't mean you're not proud and happy for your friend, you're just going through the motions right now and that's ok for a little bit, but stay strong for your mom and family, girl. It's what they want and need.
Popo
Well-Known Member
I've been thinking, has anyone in this forum ever met another member in person? I know it's impossible with us being from all around the globe, but the idea of some kind of encounter/gathering sounds like an interesting and fun thing to do. Just a thought, very hard to accomplish though.
tremor
4 itchy tasty
I wish I could meet some of the people from this forum. Some of ya'll have been better friends to me than my friends in my every day life.
@bSTAR_182 Yeah I am very happy for my best friend (not his fiance so much because we really don't like each other lol. I just want him to be happy.). And he knows what's going on with my mom so he understands too. It just upset me because I couldn't feel what I felt like I needed to feel.
My mom has already gone for her biopsy so I'm hoping I'll know something later this evening. I can tell my blood pressure is up because I keep getting dizzy. And I feel so damn sick to my stomach.
I wish all of this was just a dream..
Springhosen
Kahnum of Outworld
@Scary: No. But I've talked to one on the phone.
Tremor it's totally okay not to be happy when you think your friend is doing something stupid. That's how I felt when my best friend got married. She was making a huge mistake and I could see it but couldn't talk her out of it. I think she sees it a little more now but hindsight is 20/20 and it's a little too late. You just can't help some people, especially if they don't want it or don't see that they need help. Just be his friend and try to be there when the other shoe drops cause it will and he'll need you.
Tremor it's totally okay not to be happy when you think your friend is doing something stupid. That's how I felt when my best friend got married. She was making a huge mistake and I could see it but couldn't talk her out of it. I think she sees it a little more now but hindsight is 20/20 and it's a little too late. You just can't help some people, especially if they don't want it or don't see that they need help. Just be his friend and try to be there when the other shoe drops cause it will and he'll need you.
bSTAR_182
Sexually Active Member
@Storyofmylife
Didn't we try to make plans to meet up once? We need to the next time either of us are in each others area!
Didn't we try to make plans to meet up once? We need to the next time either of us are in each others area!
Flipqy42
Nevermore
CT: I hate my crippling social anxiety. I went to a job interview today and was so nervous, I had to remind myself to breathe several times.
Just the other day, it took me 20 minutes to work up the courage to ask my neighbor to use his phone after my broke and I needed to contact my grandmother.
I really hate feeling like I've been punched in the gut when I have to talk to people and give off a good impression.
Just the other day, it took me 20 minutes to work up the courage to ask my neighbor to use his phone after my broke and I needed to contact my grandmother.
I really hate feeling like I've been punched in the gut when I have to talk to people and give off a good impression.
Venomous Oddball
Also Known as Maddy
I know the feeling. Sometimes I get really anxious even on here. It's weird that I'm a musician and a city person and I have trouble talking to people. If I'm at a restaurant with somebody else they'll usually have to order for me because I can't talk to the waiter.
Storyofmylife
The watchful protector.
We did! I dunno what happened but YEAH definitely! I'm moving soon to Charlotte NC so if you're ever in the AREA we'll have to!
Springhosen
Kahnum of Outworld
Storyofmylife
The watchful protector.
CT: Did I already say moving is a pain in the ass? because it is. I'm getting in good shape though. A bit more muscular than I'd like... everyone can now call me Miss Muscles. pft =P
tremor
4 itchy tasty
Okay I'm back from the hospital. I had to be a bit of a bitch with the nurses. NO ONE has been calling me to let me know anything about my mom. Like yesterday when I found out that she has cancer...I didn't hear from the doctor or anything. I heard it from my crying mother over the damn telephone. And today when I got to the hospital, a nurse comes in and instead of talking to me first, they inform my mom that she's having surgery tomorrow morning. I'm sitting there like "Uhmmmm...and why didn't I know this? No one called me? Isn't that what you guys are supposed to do??" I don't think I'll be having that problem anymore.
Now. I'm going to say one thing to those of you who just assumed that I would be offended by what someone said on here. If I am offended by something, said person will be the FIRST to know. Believe me. I am NOT the kind of person to shy away and hide the fact that I've been offended. I found nothing wrong with what was said to me, by anyone today. We don't need hurt feelings around here for no reason. I'm not ****ed or anything..I just wanted to clear that up. Thank you guys for your concern though. It is much appreciated
Now. I'm going to say one thing to those of you who just assumed that I would be offended by what someone said on here. If I am offended by something, said person will be the FIRST to know. Believe me. I am NOT the kind of person to shy away and hide the fact that I've been offended. I found nothing wrong with what was said to me, by anyone today. We don't need hurt feelings around here for no reason. I'm not ****ed or anything..I just wanted to clear that up. Thank you guys for your concern though. It is much appreciated
Storyofmylife
The watchful protector.
Wow... I can't believe how incompetent that hospital is being. I'm so sorry Trem. I really hope everything goes okay tomorrow. I'll be keeping you and your mother in my thoughts. If you need anything you can always come and talk to me on here privately. <3
Romero
Her royal court joker
Darling, I'm so sorry. And frightened. I read Magnolia's reply and it says everything I want to say:
So well put.
Storyofmylife
The watchful protector.
CT: If anyone needs a good laugh please watch this video. I watch it every time I'm down and it REALLY helps-
Seriously I'm in tears xD
Seriously I'm in tears xD
Spikeyroxas
Pencil Artist
Every so often I usually end up on 'that side' of thr Internet.
This is one of those moments
Springhosen
Kahnum of Outworld
So when you have an apt for chemo, you should be gotten at your apt time, not an hour and a half later.
Venomous Oddball
Also Known as Maddy
NOOOOO!! Whyyy must Freddie Smith leave Days of Our Livesss??? Sonny's one of my favourite characters!! I hope they don't write off Paul now, I won't have any good-looking guys to look at on the show anymore! :eager: