ChrisRedfield1994
Potato Lobber
I have sympathies for people with dementia, but my sympathies primarily lie with the carers. My grandfather with advanced dementia is now living with us and today he didn't even recognise me. He's become more aggressive, he tries to leave the house at 1 in the morning claiming that he needs to sort something at the races or he needs to go home and he form a single sentence properly.
Before anyone thinks that I'm being unreasonable, consider this: I have a bucket load of health problems ranging from nerve damage to chronic fatigue via blood clots in my right lung and leg. I'm doing my A level exams in the summer and I'm two years behind university as I've repeated two years of school thanks to the aforementioned afflictions. I have a abusive stepfather and a mother who has the same conditions as I. My brother has to get up to go to work in the morning.
Does anyone think that with all of these circumstances you could handle someone who can't remember your name, tries to wander off in the middle night and/or is becoming more and more volatile? At twenty I shouldn't have to be paranoid at 2am that my grandfather will walk out of the door.
I hope everyone had a joyous new year and a very merry Christmas.
Before anyone thinks that I'm being unreasonable, consider this: I have a bucket load of health problems ranging from nerve damage to chronic fatigue via blood clots in my right lung and leg. I'm doing my A level exams in the summer and I'm two years behind university as I've repeated two years of school thanks to the aforementioned afflictions. I have a abusive stepfather and a mother who has the same conditions as I. My brother has to get up to go to work in the morning.
Does anyone think that with all of these circumstances you could handle someone who can't remember your name, tries to wander off in the middle night and/or is becoming more and more volatile? At twenty I shouldn't have to be paranoid at 2am that my grandfather will walk out of the door.
I hope everyone had a joyous new year and a very merry Christmas.