I used to have a "Poison" avatar and a purple color scheme on PSN/SEN, I cant tell you how many guys added me thinking I was a girl. Mid-way through a convo they ask "are you a girl" and I'd just delete them right off the bat. It became annoying to the point where I just had to change the whole damn theme I had. Guess what, hardly anymore random adds by players in games, it's actually funny how drastic it slowed down. But I love girl gamers, I mean real girl gamers.
I Just love REAL gamers on the whole. The sad thing is most of the girls I've played with on psn turned out to mostly be attention whores after I tried getting to know them. On my psn friends list there's like a handful of real female gamers, who's on there though usually knows a thing or two about games and not just some COD casual gamer. My hate for them mostly stems from my hate of posers though.