Online dating is the new penpal dating - only quicker and usually creepier :tongue:
This one guy was obviously not worth your time (and this happens whether you meet them online or not) but that's not to say that online dating isn't still a viable option. Might be worth trying a different site?
I hear you with the nightclub thing though - when picking a potential partner for more than a quick fumble once in a while, you want to look someplace where people are wanting the same sort of thing. Dating sites are a bit hit and miss for a while because there are nutters, trolls, liars and the generally confused out there - but such is life in any area you start looking for love. But I believe they can be a perfectly useful medium for meeting people with similar interests and ideas about relationships. Over in the UK we get two types of adverts on TV these days: online gambling and dating websites. So at least if one doesn't work out, I guess we've got the other to fall back on? Or something...