GIRL PROBLEMS!!!!!!!

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kalim

kalim

I'm no f**king buddhist but this is enlightment
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WARNING this is a long story.
I told my friend that I kinda like her friend who is also my friend.so then she lied to me & said she's crazy about you.Long story short,my friend told me the next day that she said to her on the phone that she doesnt like me but likes this other boy now.Now that got me mad with this girl & I called her a slut & stuff.then she said its not true & that my friends lying.so im no longer friends with my friend & ive made friends with the girl I like.Now how do I make her like me?
(sorry if i made your brain burst!I warned you
 
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My advice to you: talk to the girl directly, not to her friends. and stay as far away from playing the telephone game as humanly possible.

In fact, given all you said, I'd tell you to just forget it and go find someone else. But hey, you obviously won't listen. Nobody ever listens in these situations when you tell them to save their energy instead of what they want to hear.
 
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Wait, let me see if I got that right...
Your friend told you that your friend didn't like you and your friend but then your friend which is also a friend of your friend said she couldn't be her friend because you were your friend and also his friend is a friend of other friend?
 
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Here is my advice, first of all apologize to her about what you called her, it's pretty much essential that you tell her this immediatly because if you don't she will probably won't accept you.

After that you have 2 choices, you can either confess your love to her or take her out on a date. If you confess your love to her make sure you say some sweet, kind, innoncent, and loving words to her. What ever you do and I can't stress this one enough, but what ever you do don't to say anything that involves sex or how sexy she looks and how you would like to see her with her cloths not on because the next thing that you may get is 5 finger marks on your cheek and then you're chances of going out with her is lost. If you start to get nervous then just get to the point and just tell her that you love her.

If you choose to take her out on a date ask her what she'll like to her. If she is unsure about what both of you should do then suggest either going dancing, watching a movie (Perferably something that she wants to watch, even if it does suck.), etc., etc. If she is a little bit hungry, thirsty, or if both of you agree on it, take her to a restraunt. Choose a restraunt that has food that she likes and looks great on the inside. While in the restraunt talk to her some more, but this time talk in general. Ask her what stuff she likes and listen to her (If you don't give a care what she is saying then you might as well not go out with her anymore) and if she asks you something then you just answer her. Also while you're eating, eat like a gentleman, because girls don't boys who eat like pigs. If everything works out and you treat her with respect you may just get to first base or score some more dates with her.

Now if you see her being mistreated by anyone or being talked down too, then just help her out with the situation.

Also and what ever you do, don't abuse her, don't make her do your biddings, don't talk down to her, and don't intimidate her. Trust me on this, I learned from my mistake and my girlfriend was almost ready to dump me.

Hope this helps.
 
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kalim said:
WARNING this is a long story.
I told my friend that I kinda like her friend who is also my friend.so then she lied to me & said she's crazy about you.Long story short,my friend told me the next day that she said to her on the phone that she doesnt like me but likes this other boy now.Now that got me mad with this girl & I called her a slut & stuff.then she said its not true & that my friends lying.so im no longer friends with my friend & ive made friends with the girl I like.Now how do I make her like me?
(sorry if i made your brain burst!I warned you
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Try to make amends with the friend you called a slut. Tell her you're sorry and ask for forgiveness. As for your other friend - Don't get too close to her. If she's a laidback person, then thats cool, but if she's a drama queen, give her a nice, heart-warming headbutt down a flight of stairs, and call it a night.
 
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Same thing happened to me. Only worse (nailing another man behind my back).
I learned this lesson........ Plenty of other fish in the sea. You'll eventually find an honest, trustworthy fish.
 
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I have made amends with her & plus im 10.Do you really think im going to talk about sex?BTW, FalleN is that lady gaga on your signature or a hooker? I cant tell the difference!


Try to make amends with the friend you called a slut. Tell her you're sorry and ask for forgiveness. As for your other friend - Don't get too close to her. If she's a laidback person, then thats cool, but if she's a drama queen, give her a nice, heart-warming headbutt down a flight of stairs, and call it a night.
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thanks for the great advice.I think your the only one who gets this story.
 
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kalim said:
I have made amends with her & plus im 10.Do you really think im going to talk about sex?
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Well I thought you were 20 seeing how it does say that is your age on here is 20. And trust me, at my school there are a lot of 10 year olds who do talk about that and it kinda disgusts me that they want to do that at a young age because it can cause some health problems.
 
kalim said:
I have made amends with her & plus im 10..............BTW, FalleN is that lady gaga on your signature or a hooker? I cant tell the difference!
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Ahh, I see. buy her a doll then! xD

She could be both, but she is just Gaga... wait.. how old are you again?!?!?!? wow
 
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Yeah, I never even told her to tell her I liked her. Oh and yes slot of people at my school do talk sex but I'm not a dirty bugga!
 
kalim said:
Yeah, I never even told her to tell her I liked her. Oh and yes slot of people at my school do talk sex but I'm not a dirty bugga!
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Even telling friends that you have a crush on someone who they're friends with is a bad thing. They almost always run back and tell them.
 
Today I actually had to go into her house to pick up this character description that her mum was doing for my older sisters mcdonalds job application & we didn't talk to each other at all.She was staring at me though.I didn't think it was so awkward that day at school after that whole incident happened though, I mean she was really friendly that day, like nothing happened.But when I went to her house she was really strange.Maybe she's thought about it and likes me now.I won't get my hopes up.Not after last time anyway.I'll have to see tomorrow.
 
You're question is a bad one...You said How do I make her like me. You don't...You be you and hope she loves you...That's all you can ask for...If she doesn't well, at least be happy she has someone (assuming she get's someone) then have dreams about murdering he in her sleep...Ok...Maybe that last part isn't so great...but, well to each his own!
 
I'm pretty sure I said I apologized.Plus I think she does like me, so I'm planning to ask her out.I think when I went to her house she was just nervous, since she has anxiety problems.
 
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