GIRL PROBLEMS!!!!!!!

[Romero]

I'm pretty sure I said I apologized.Plus I think she does like me, so I'm planning to ask her out.I think when I went to her house she was just nervous, since she has anxiety problems.

You're only 10 and you're about to ask a girl out? Wow. When I was at your age, I looked at girls and hoped no one would notice I looked at them. I wish I had your courage back then. But even if I had had that courage, where would I want us to go? The options are very limited for most ten year olds...
I wish you luck.

 

[tremor]

You're only 10 and you're about to ask a girl out? Wow. When I was at your age, I looked at girls and hoped no one would notice I looked at them. I wish I had your courage back then. But even if I had had that courage, where would I want us to go? The options are very limited for most ten year olds...
I wish you luck.

I've noticed that alot of kids these days are more worried about having a girlfriend/boyfriend rather than worrying about their education and what not. I was in Walmart the other day and overheard a girl who seemed like she was maybe nine, throwing a temper fit because her mom took her iPhone away from her.

"What if my boyfriend calls? What if my friends text me?"

I had much better things to worry about when I was that age lol. But you can't tell kids that because they look at you like you're stupid. One day they'll be telling some kid the same thing I just said lmao.

I'm such a party-pooper...

 

[Mr.Burton]

When I clicked this I thought it was about puberty, LOL..

 

[Rain611]

I've noticed that alot of kids these days are more worried about having a girlfriend/boyfriend rather than worrying about their education and what not. I was in Walmart the other day and overheard a girl who seemed like she was maybe nine, throwing a temper fit because her mom took her iPhone away from her.

"What if my boyfriend calls? What if my friends text me?"

I had much better things to worry about when I was that age lol. But you can't tell kids that because they look at you like you're stupid. One day they'll be telling some kid the same thing I just said lmao.

I'm such a party-pooper...

I know. I was at the store and these two girls who couldn't have been in the double digits yet were talking about their boyfriends, and all I could think was WTF? Seriously? I didn't know boys and girls were really that into each other at that age. I know I wasn't. And really. What are two 10 year olds gonna do? And the odds of keeping said 10 year olds together for any significant amount of time has got to be astronomical.

@OP- having a girlfriend is not all its made out to be all the time. It takes a lot of work to be in a relationship. You should just enjoy your time as a kid because you're only a kid once. You have the rest of your life to worry about girls.

 

[benfen]

This whole thing must be new, our grade only just got into that sort of stuff (I'm 14).

 

[Romero]

I know. I was at the store and these two girls who couldn't have been in the double digits yet were talking about their boyfriends, and all I could think was WTF? Seriously? I didn't know boys and girls were really that into each other at that age. I know I wasn't. And really. What are two 10 year olds gonna do? And the odds of keeping said 10 year olds together for any significant amount of time has got to be astronomical.

@OP- having a girlfriend is not all its made out to be all the time. It takes a lot of work to be in a relationship. You should just enjoy your time as a kid because you're only a kid once. You have the rest of your life to worry about girls.

Well, I got my first girlfriend at the age of five. We didn't start kissing until the age of seven though. But I must have been bad at it, coz she found our she didn't like it lmao.
Later I became very shy and didn't even talk with girls, I only hung around with boys lol.

 

[VP-70]

If your first reaction to being rejected is to call a girl a slut, then perhaps you have some growing up as well as thinking to do before you try pulling that stunt again....

Listen carefully, and learn this lesson well....

As a man you may pick any woman you like, but you cannot have, any woman you like.


Wait a minute, the OP is TEN?

rrrriiiiight.

 

[kalim]

If your first reaction to being rejected is to call a girl a slut, then perhaps you have some growing up as well as thinking to do before you try pulling that stunt again....

true..... but she kinda is.I mean today my friend that lied to me (who I forgave) told me that she liked this other dude who likes her too & used to be together but her best friend likes him & shes backstabbing her because they literally eye each other up.& my other friend told me that this was true aswell.I need to tell her tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!
ooh & most of what the friend that lied to me said was apparently true.Even the girl I like's best friend agreed with her, & she is not the lying type.So she likes me, him & maybe this other dude?.SLUT.But I can't get over her.

 

[benfen]

...what?

1. Please calm down.
2. Please rephrase that bunch of words.
3. You don't -need- to tell her tomorrow. Take things slow.

 

[Angel]

Am I seriously the only person who is lol'ing right now?

 

[Rain611]

Am I seriously the only person who is lol'ing right now?

No lol

If your first reaction to being rejected is to call a girl a slut, then perhaps you have some growing up as well as thinking to do before you try pulling that stunt again....

true..... but she kinda is.I mean today my friend that lied to me (who I forgave) told me that she liked this other dude who likes her too & used to be together but her best friend likes him & shes backstabbing her because they literally eye each other up.& my other friend told me that this was true aswell.I need to tell her tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!
ooh & most of what the friend that lied to me said was apparently true.Even the girl I like's best friend agreed with her, & she is not the lying type.So she likes me, him & maybe this other dude?.SLUT.But I can't get over her.

Um, wait. Just because she likes a lot of guys she's a slut? Not exactly the definition I grew up with lol. They're just crushes and odds are you just have a crush yourself.

Side Note: When did such young kids' vocabularies start including words like 'slut' anyway? Too much exposure, super sized egos, lacking maturity and life knowledge.... In my opinion kids these days seriously need to slow it down a bit.

I may not be old and wise, but I've been 10 before, 12 years ago lol. A lot of things have culturally changed, but I know being 10 is not this big of a deal, and neither are corresponding crushes.

And one more thing. If you think you like her, stop calling her a slut at the very least. I know if some guy kept calling me a slut, the last thing I would want to do is have anything to do with him. Actually, from what I've read, you two probably shouldn't be together. Like another poster said, grow up a little bit first.

 

[A_Wesker123]

If your first reaction to being rejected is to call a girl a slut, then perhaps you have some growing up as well as thinking to do before you try pulling that stunt again....

true..... but she kinda is.I mean today my friend that lied to me (who I forgave) told me that she liked this other dude who likes her too & used to be together but her best friend likes him & shes backstabbing her because they literally eye each other up.& my other friend told me that this was true aswell.I need to tell her tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!
ooh & most of what the friend that lied to me said was apparently true.Even the girl I like's best friend agreed with her, & she is not the lying type.So she likes me, him & maybe this other dude?.SLUT.But I can't get over her.

This is probably going to come across as harsh, so i apologise in advance.

First of all, you're ten years old. You shouldn't be using words like 'slut'. This girl is only ten years old, she's not a slut. If she was promiscuous and went around having sex with a lot of different people, then what you called her would be justified.

As you're ten years old, i can only assume you are very naive. You say you can't get over this girl? You'll go through many, many relationships during your lifetime, trust me when i say she won't be the only girl you fall for. You need to calm down, stop rushing and get over whatever it is you're saying the girl has done.

You seriously need to grow up before you even consider getting into a relationship. Also, if you really liked a girl, you wouldn't come to a message board to call her a slut.

 

[Angel]

Tell you what, let me have a quiet word with your mother. Starting with determining whether you are actually ten and then if you are, discussing what the hell is wrong with the woman for letting you get into stuff like RE in the first place at such a young age. That should more than take your mind off any "girl problems".

Srsly, when little kids start getting into stuff waaaay beyond their years, it's messed up. Young people today terrify me...

 

[kalim]

Again,true.maybe I should have said floosy instead of slut (in meaning she can't pick who she likes.) but I didn't know that what my lying friend was telling me was a lie.That's why I called her that.But, I don't think she is a slut anymore.BTW I think I'm gonna delete this whole thread since ive got quite the bit of advice now.Ooh yeah, and I'm not friends with that liar anymore.

 

[L]

No lol

Um, wait. Just because she likes a lot of guys she's a slut? Not exactly the definition I grew up with lol. They're just crushes and odds are you just have a crush yourself.

You'd be surprised these days. I know a girl who is my age who already had sex.

Tell you what, let me have a quiet word with your mother. Starting with determining whether you are actually ten and then if you are, discussing what the hell is wrong with the woman for letting you get into stuff like RE in the first place at such a young age. That should more than take your mind off any "girl problems".

Srsly, when little kids start getting into stuff waaaay beyond their years, it's messed up. Young people today terrify me...

My age group makes me embarrassed to be so young. I laugh at Elementary and Middle school relationships. I have a phone and I don't have to text 100 people every waking hour. I know I'm a kid, I don't get involved in this stuff. Specially when kids ask me for advice since I could coerce someone to walk off a bridge.

And kid, don't call people sluts. Don't even go near that direction till high school. Especially if you "like them and there is no other girl." I'm gonna go back to laughing now.

 

[Silverback]

You're an intelligent one, Rathit. Good on you.

It makes me sick when you find out a small child has had intercourse because she thinks it's fine. Our world has fallen, and few are effectively teaching children about morals, it would seem.

 

[Romero]

You're an intelligent one, Rathit. Good on you.

It makes me sick when you find out a small child has had intercourse because she thinks it's fine. Our world has fallen, and few are effectively teaching children about morals, it would seem.

And that happens in countries where they are very conservative about what's allowed on TV. In the *Nordic countries, no one cares about a naked tit on TV, or a penis for that matter (as long it's not porn). And children here are not worse than children in North America and the UK. Sexual relationships between kids of that age is almost unheard of here.
To me, this proves that censoring nudity is not working as a method of protecting children from premature sexual acts.

*Iceland, Norway, Finland, Sweden and Denmark

 

[La Femme Fatale]

If your first reaction to being rejected is to call a girl a slut, then perhaps you have some growing up as well as thinking to do before you try pulling that stunt again....

true..... but she kinda is.I mean today my friend that lied to me (who I forgave) told me that she liked this other dude who likes her too & used to be together but her best friend likes him & shes backstabbing her because they literally eye each other up.& my other friend told me that this was true aswell.I need to tell her tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!
ooh & most of what the friend that lied to me said was apparently true.Even the girl I like's best friend agreed with her, & she is not the lying type.So she likes me, him & maybe this other dude?.SLUT.But I can't get over her.

Dude, you're ten. She's ten. She probably just thinks you have cooties. Just chillax and go play in a pile of mud for heaven sakes.

 

[sadistic_greyfox]

Whatever happened to kids...Just being kids? Forced ripped generation man.

 

[La Femme Fatale]

Oh, and by the way, the fact that she 'likes' so many boys doesn't make her a slut. It just makes her a normal little girl doing things that normal little girls do. It's best not to throw around words if you don't know what they mean. Cheers.