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Effective ways to motivate people!

La Femme Fatale

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So, I have this one class where most of our assignments have to be done with the same group throughout the entire semester. The only problem is I didn't get to pick my group because I enrolled in the class late, and I ended up with 'the bottom of the barrel' for lack of a better term. I do all the work, I've caught one of my group members copying and pasting entire paragraphs from Wikipedia into our paper (and leaving the links in to top it off), they don't ever go to class and I'm at my wits end and they get 3/10s on their questions from the group assignment. I'm talking to the prof tomorrow about it and she has already said that we can kick members who slack out of our group... my only problem is that every single person in my group slacks. So, does anyone have any tips or hints on how to motivate them? I've tried being uber nice "no worries guys, we'll just do really well on the second and I'm always available to help you if you need it" to being uber irritated and snippy with them and nothing is working! I'd love to do it by myself but unfortunately the way the assignments are set up I can't.
 
You've tried being nice and you've tried being snippy. It's time to be more bite than bark. Give them an ultimatum. "If you don't pitch in on this without plagiarizing I'm doing the whole damn thing myself and making sure your stupid asses flunk."
If blackmailing to sell them out doesn't get the job done then you've got nothing to work with. You've just got to go from bark to bite and screw them over. You'll just have to do the whole assignment yourself under the name of the group and at the bottom say that you did 100% of the work and they all deserve ZERO credit.

Just whatever you do don't let yourself give them a free ride.
The only thing more disgusting than people who expect a free ride from their peers are the people who manage to get one. Besides, it's a small world. You don't want people at your school/university who think that a class with you is a chance to take advantage of someone.
 
You've tried being nice and you've tried being snippy. It's time to be more bite than bark. Give them an ultimatum. "If you don't pitch in on this without plagiarizing I'm doing the whole damn thing myself and making sure your stupid asses flunk."
If blackmailing to sell them out doesn't get the job done then you've got nothing to work with. You've just got to go from bark to bite and screw them over. You'll just have to do the whole assignment yourself under the name of the group and at the bottom say that you did 100% of the work and they all deserve ZERO credit.

Just whatever you do don't let yourself give them a free ride.
The only thing more disgusting than people who expect a free ride from their peers are the people who manage to get one. Besides, it's a small world. You don't want people at your school/university who think that a class with you is a chance to take advantage of someone.
I'm 100% behind Cheezy. If being nice doesn't work, it's time to be more Fatale and less Femme. It's an extremely annoying and frustrating situation, so I don't think the slackers will survive more than 28 days, maximum.
 
Time to take your mentally challenged little darlings on a special day out to a field where they can get to know nature, you know, smell the daisys , roll around in the grass... sit around and talk about their procrastination and how they can't be assed.

To which yourself, ( from the other side of the fence ) say '' Ohhh guysss *points to the sign post then wink*







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And watch a surge of enthusiasm and drive sweep your newly energized bunnies little fluffy docile asses like never before.



On a more serious point.

I think Femme, ( after trying different tactics ) this is the stage where you need to look after yourself. Some points to think over.

#1, You are there to be educated, not be holding people by the hand and shouldering their problems.

#2, Open up communication with your tutor ( which i think you've already done ) so that you can put your concearns over to your tutor and make them aware of the defect in your group. this connects perfectly to

#3,Don't be nasty about it... coming across as hot headed may feel like the right thing to do, and you may well be within your rights to do so,but you'll look as if you are losing it... i'm not saying you'd say the following, but '' my failings are their fault '' never looks good in any setting. Again, this links nicely to ,

#4 You need to start practicing the art in the excellence of execution.. Let YOUR work, do all your talking. Let the, slump their way through their course, nature in the wilderness or the mind will take place, and the weak will perish. So it's important YOUR self and work, is kept sharp and focused on the matter at hand.

I know this is easier said than done, but having done psychology and art (which are two very different subjects culturaly speaking ) i know how frustrating it is when your group are being knuckle dragging arm chair revolutionaries. When the gonig gets tough they'll fall away, and you'll most likely get moved into another group.

your frustration isn't unfounded either, i mean it's a big thing, it's important in your eyes to get this done so you can go out into the world and make a difference, but as corny as it sounds, i am a BIG believer in the old saying that no snow flake ever falls in the wrong place. how you handle this situation will hold you in good stead.

Time for a team meeting, one last roll of the dice.

one last thing, just a little something to end on.

When someone like yourself, decides to make their life an effort to change/fight for the lives of others, you no longer live life, you begin to endure it.

when you think endurance, you think Wolf, problem solver, stamina, instinctive, but very loving and social. this problem you have will shrink into a dot by the time the real fighting starts... so use this to sharpen your skills.

Truth ( as in your work and your efforts ) will always shine through, so please don't let it consume you.

hope this helps :)
 
You need no further advice. VP has just nailed it, very impressive write up mate and top marks from me.

The dude has his head screwed on and has given all the advice you need, that'd part is implementing it but I'm sure you'll be able to apply this. Best of luck :)
 
I've been in similar situations, that's really annoying. Usually they really don't vare about the assingnements so you have to do your work, the work they were supposed to do, and double check anything they may have done.
If it is possible, ask the teacher to ghange into other group, or to do it alone (if possible) -- sometimes it's better to work on your own.
If not, then you'll have to tell them you work seriously because you want to have a good mark and they'll be quicked from the group if they don't put some effort into it.
There's really not much you can do, they probably won't change because of this, but keep sending them emails askign if they have already done this and that, and that you're waiting for them to do something in order to do the next part, etc.

Good luck Femme.
 
Agree with all of the above - I had this issue in college and spoke to my tutor. All my groupmates were smoking pot, getting drunk and not turning up to class. All input, effort and work was mine alone but assignment rules stipulated a team effort was required in order to pass the module in question. Managed to get a compromise whereby my tutor split the marking up so that everything I did came under one aspect of the module and everything they chucked together came under another - needless to say, three flunked, one dropped out of the course altogether and I got a decent 85% mark.

Be a biznatch but politely - explain the situation calmly, say what you want from the assignment and then, just as calmly, punch it home that unless they pull their weight, they're out. Sure, you won't be miss popular but people like that only hold you back anyway so what's the loss?
 
Thanks for the advice everyone! Turns out all my pestering paid off after all... just got the marks back for the second assignment (not the one I wrote by myself) and we got 94% so I'm pretty pleased. :) Finally they picked up their slack.
 
Glad to hear that the problems were resolved one way or another.

For future reference: I've recently discovered that setting people on fire is a very effective motivator.
 
94% is only 6% from perfect! I'm so glad to hear you're pleased, and with that result I guess you have every reason to be pleased. :)


For future reference: I've recently discovered that setting people on fire is a very effective motivator.
Don't be fooled, that's what she does. :p
 
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