Your sexuality.

[Angel]

You're absolutely right - how could anyone, male or female, resist you?

 

[La Femme Fatale]

I ask myself this question every day. And then I wonder why I can't land a man and it all begins to make sense.

 

[Storyofmylife]

You know what sucks about being bisexual? Not ever being able to get in the middle of the hot "experimentation" with other females. If I pretended to be straight I'd probably be able to make out with more chicks, because then they wouldn't feel uncomfortable about me getting "feelings" for them thinking I'm straight... Hmm... Sounds like a plan.

 

[cheezMcNASTY]

I'd 'go gay' in a heartbeat for cheezmcnasty. Otherwise: straight as a die.

Hell, we'd all go gay for Cheez. Or Scotty. Stuff it, I'll jump Tremor, LFF and Maggie while I'm at it for good measure...

I think you would have to be asexual to not want to go down on dear Scotty.
Oh, you guys.

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Not to sound romantic, I'm usually not much of a sweet-talker. It's just that I've got a raging boner right now.
Let's just all skip the flattery and get naked.

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[Magnolia Grandiflora]

Hell, we'd all go gay for Cheez. Or Scotty. Stuff it, I'll jump Tremor, LFF and Maggie while I'm at it for good measure...

I am included. *feelz special* I'd jump you too, Angel. (And everyone else on this list, for that matter. )

 

[Popo]

Straight. I am a very emotional and romantic guy though xD

 

[Magnolia Grandiflora]

Straight. I am a very emotional and romantic guy though xD

That's like, the cutest thing I've ever heard.

 

[Romero]

I'm off the scale, sort of. I can't place myself on a simple scale ranging from gay to hetero, because I'm partly asexual at the same time I'm completely straight. I have never felt the slightest attraction to males, women is the only thing that have attracted me.
It's difficult to put exact figures, but, say 3/4 hetero and 1/4 asexual? Something like that. One could maybe think that several years as single would make me needy as a rabbit, but it's actually the opposite. The more time I spend alone the lesser is the needs.

 

[Magnolia Grandiflora]

I'm off the scale, sort of. I can't place myself on a simple scale ranging from gay to hetero, because I'm partly asexual at the same time I'm completely straight. I have never felt the slightest attraction to males, women is the only thing that have attracted me.
It's difficult to put exact figures, but, say 3/4 hetero and 1/4 asexual? Something like that. One could maybe think that several years as single would make me needy as a rabbit, but it's actually the opposite. The more time I spend alone the lesser is the needs.

Wouldn't you be hetero-romantic, then? (I've done a bit of research on this as I've suspected that I might be asexual since it was mentioned that I might be by one of my close friends in high school but I honestly think I don't have enough experience in this area to be sure, but I'm still a little confused at all the terminology. Perhaps you know more...?)

 

[bSTAR_182]

I'm straight, but I am comfortable with saying that another girl is beautiful, I just haven't felt a sexual desire to be with them. I have toyed with the idea of making out with another girl but I really doubt I would go any further than that. I likes me my hard bodied men.

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I do feel like a gay man in a woman's body sometimes though!

 

[Romero]

hetero-romantic,

This is the very first time I hear this term so I can't say much about it, other than I love the sound of it, haha.

 

[KennedyKiller]

I'd go after you Femme...But...Seeing as I'm straight, it's more "internet stalker creepy" than "gay joke funny"

 

[Magnolia Grandiflora]

This is the very first time I hear this term so I can't say much about it, other than I love the sound of it, haha.

I've seen it used on asexual forums and in articles about asexuals and this seems to be what they refer to themselves as if I'm not terribly mistaken - (Which I could most definitely be.) - hetero-romantic, homo-romantic and...bi-romantic, I guess. (Though I haven't seen/heard any asexuals speak about being attracted to and/or being in a relationship with both genders; I guess it's not common or maybe I just haven't conversed with enough people about it.) I can only assume that since asexuals don't particularly take pleasure in sex - not in the conventional sense anyway - they consider themselves romantic. (Which seems very reasonable.)

 

[Romero]

I've seen it used on asexual forums

There are forums for that too? I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
You know you are good with men/women if you go to an asexual forum and successfully chat up someone. Haha, this just struck me, and it would probably be a challenge.

 

[Magnolia Grandiflora]

There are forums for that too? I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
You know you are good with men/women if you go to an asexual forum and successfully chat up someone. Haha, this just struck me, and it would probably be a challenge.

Yes there are and, from what I see, they're very helpful. People go there to meet and converse with other asexual people as it seems rather difficult to actually meet other asexuals, some users on these forums are merely curious and wish to know more or are trying to discover if their lack of sex drive or pleasure in sexual activities means they're asexual and some of them are simply trying to seek help in being involved with a partner who is not asexual. I've actually considered joining one myself in hopes of shedding light on my own situation...

 

[Storyofmylife]

I'm straight, but I am comfortable with saying that another girl is beautiful, I just haven't felt a sexual desire to be with them. I have toyed with the idea of making out with another girl but I really doubt I would go any further than that. I likes me my hard bodied men.

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I do feel like a gay man in a woman's body sometimes though!

I love lady gaga... Guilty pleasure, I personally am not attracted to her though. Weird isn't it? If I were you, I wouldn't make out with another woman, you'll never be the same... They're better, but they'll rip your heart out and watch you while you die. Ugh women... Yes boys, I know your heartache.

 

[AusyAndy]

I also think the concept of sexuality is in a way 'fluid'. No matter who you are, or who you think you are, your interests can somehow change. (That's not the same thing as some twisted people's ideas that we can 'be changed' or choose our sexuality! And it also doesn't mean that at one point in everyone's life that they will find themselves attracted to the same/opposite gender.)

There was a time when I was, or thought I was, bisexual. I was attracted to anyone and everyone, sexually, romantically, in every way possible. At one point it was like I was even playing a game of tug-of-war in my mind over who I was attracted to more...

And in the last few years it seems that something has changed. Now I'm only attracted to guys. Like before, I'm attracted sexually, romantically, in every way possible, but my interest in the opposite sex has completely faded away. I can only see myself spending my life with another male. I'm happy with that and I wouldn't want it any other way.

 

[VP-70]

Straight as an arrow.

Sex and sexuality to me are two seperate things.

Sex to me is an act, and act that meets the needs of an urge or display of love to another..I've always been the gentleman in said department. ( too much info alert perhaps ) porn style sex is an utter turn off to me, as i prefer to have fun, and giggles with plenty of affection.. completely relaxed and let everything happen at a natural steady pace instead of frisking like i think am on a porn set.

( sometimes feels like the only guy on earth who doesnt watch porn )

then there is sexuality, which to me is a large part of your identity.

I can't be bothered with what type of sexuality someone is, i've frankly got more important things to be doing than pointing a finger at someone elses life and preference.

I've always been at peace with myself in that department...

I know a lot of straight folk who scream abuse at gays and liberal types,

I know gays who try to bash straights with the descrimination trick... i know gays who go out their way to try and '' turn '' straight guys.

I know liberal types who mouth off about how much **** they've sucked and all the rest of it..

So sexuality is a tricky subject as it can mean many things to many people.

Although i want to say as a guy, as it's something i hear around the pub table a lot... is the belief guys hold that is '' we're ment to spread our seed '' this is usually a line that is rolled out after a discussion about these same men cheating on their partners. It's a line thats never held water with me as frankly, its just a down right excuse for those who cant behave themselves.

Anyways, for me personally when it comes to my partner and i, its a time where i show my absolute love and affection for her, and not a time where i pretend to be a stud. seriously, the internet has a lot to answer for.

 

[Romero]

sometimes feels like the only guy on earth who doesnt watch porn

You and me that makes two of us. I've never had an interest for porn, not even when I was a teenager. The initial curiosity I had didn't last long. I like to look at sexy women but I don't think porn is sexy.

Although i want to say as a guy, as it's something i hear around the pub table a lot... is the belief guys hold that is '' we're ment to spread our seed '' this is usually a line that is rolled out after a discussion about these same men cheating on their partners. It's a line thats never held water with me as frankly, its just a down right excuse for those who cant behave themselves.

Right. People will always find excuses for their misdeeds.

 

[Meg]

Wouldn't you be hetero-romantic, then? (I've done a bit of research on this as I've suspected that I might be asexual since it was mentioned that I might be by one of my close friends in high school but I honestly think I don't have enough experience in this area to be sure, but I'm still a little confused at all the terminology. Perhaps you know more...?)

This is the very first time I hear this term so I can't say much about it, other than I love the sound of it, haha.

I actually just did a workshop on gender and sexuality. There are two types of attraction. Sexual and romantic. There are some people who are only really attracted in one of the two ways, but most people experience both. Demisexual is a person that can experience sexual attraction, but they need to get to know the person first. Hope that helps.