Your sexuality.

[Storyofmylife]

This thread may be too personal for some, but I figured why the hell not make one of these threads? There's just a few rules here. No gay, straight, or bisexual bashing of any kind, believe me I've seen all sorts of judgemental behavior from both sides of the spectrum.


I'll start of course. I'd like to say I'm 50/50 so I guess that would make me Bi. I'm not prejudice when it comes to gender. I've fallen in love with both. I've also never met a woman who wouldn't have sex with at least one other woman celebrity/non-celebrity. So that leaves me with this opinion: I feel as though no one is completely gay or straight and we can all be attracted to the opposite or same sex to a certain extent. This of course, is my opinion and nothing else.

So anyway, feel free to reply with your opinion on the matter and who you feel you are personally. I think this thread could swing in some interested directions.

 

[cheezMcNASTY]

Straight. There's just no comparing when it comes to the fairer sex.

 

[La Femme Fatale]

I've only really ever been in romantic relationships with men (and can only envision myself in relationships with men, unfortunately) so in that respect I'm straight. I'm not going to lie... there were times I wish I could be lesbian, I feel I'd be happier but I'm not into vag that much so I'm utterly stuck with men and their horribleness.

This isn't to say that I haven't dabbled... I certainly have, and I'd go so far as to say I've made out with more women than I have men but it's never gotten remotely emotional. But for me, sexuality isn't a big deal. I can appreciate and have fun with a beautiful woman as much as a beautiful man.

 

[Storyofmylife]

I've only really ever been in romantic relationships with men (and can only envision myself in relationships with men, unfortunately) so in that respect I'm straight. I'm not going to lie... there were times I wish I could be lesbian, I feel I'd be happier but I'm not into vag (except my own, mine is fascinating to me) that much so I'm utterly stuck with men and their horribleness.

This isn't to say that I haven't dabbled... I certainly have, and I'd go so far as to say I've made out with more women than I have men but it's never gotten remotely emotional. But for me, sexuality isn't a big deal. I can appreciate and have fun with a beautiful woman as much as a beautiful man.

Trust me, women are equally as horrible as men. I was in a relationship with one for 3 years only to find out she was cheating on me the last year. I had to do some serious prying to figure it out too, she should've told me she had fallen out of love with me before she cheated, but I guess no one is perfect. The thing that makes it worse is the fact that she left me feeling as though I still had a chance saying "Maybe sometime in the future we'll get back together, but right now I'm in love with him, and I've fallen out of love with you... But that doesn't mean we can't still be friends." This of course turned into a friends with benefits thing that lasted for about a year with her using me for free meals, movies, and just about anything she could until I got the balls to say "You know what? F*ck you." and never speaking to her again. I should've done it much sooner, but I'm quite passive when it comes to women.

 

[La Femme Fatale]

I think people are just horrible in general, haha. On a similar note, a couple months ago I caught my sister sexting with my ex-boyfriend (who I was seeing at the time). Don't know which one of them are worse.

 

[Storyofmylife]

I think people are just horrible in general, haha. On a similar note, a couple months ago I caught my sister sexting with my ex-boyfriend (who I was seeing at the time). Don't know which one of them are worse.

Jesus... You must have a really good temper. I don't know what I would've done in that situation. I have a crazy crazy idea if I ever actually "catch" someone in the act of cheating. First, I'd have to know when and where, then I'd go and get some gasoline buckets, pour the gasoline out into other containers and fill the gasoline containers with water. I'd then proceed to be on my way to wherever they're bumping uglies. I'd kick open the door, with containers in hand and start dousing them with what they THINK is gasoline, but it's really water. I'll be hysterically laugh/crying whilst doing this, then get a match, light it, and see their faces when I throw it and nothing happens. Moral of the story, don't ever cheat on me, or I'll troll the f*ck out of you.

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[Meg]

True that! Sexuality is fluid. It isn't set in stone. Most people go their whole life only being attracted the the opposite sex, but there are certainly people who can have one exception.

Me? That's hard to say. I have only ever been attracted to men before, but I have no desire to have sex with anyone. I've also never had sex, so I can't say if I'd be into it or not. While I have never been attracted to another sex or gender beside a (reasonably) masculine male, I do leave the option open. You never know, a woman could fall out of the sky and make me like "OH MY GOSH!!!!" Do I see that happening? No, but I won't be turned off if it does.

 

[Storyofmylife]

True that! Sexuality is fluid. It isn't set in stone. Most people go their whole life only being attracted the the opposite sex, but there are certainly people who can have one exception.

Me? That's hard to say. I have only ever been attracted to men before, but I have no desire to have sex with anyone. I've also never had sex, so I can't say if I'd be into it or not. While I have never been attracted to another sex or gender beside a (reasonably) masculine male, I do leave the option open. You never know, a woman could fall out of the sky and make me like "OH MY GOSH!!!!" Do I see that happening? No, but I won't be turned off if it does.

I'm in the same virginity boat as you lol. It's an honorable thing to keep it and save it for who you think is best. If a woman falls out of the sky, then I'd question it's motives... It could be some Greek God wanting revenge or something... Don't f*ck it! You might give birth to Hercules! Hahaha totally kidding.

 

[cheezMcNASTY]

Correct me if I'm wrong here, but I think women in general are just more comfortable with looking at other women in a sexual way. It could just be because I'm a man, but from where I'm sitting women certainly seem more open to experimentation.

 

[Storyofmylife]

Correct me if I'm wrong here, but I think women in general are just more comfortable with looking at other women in a sexual way. It could just be because I'm a man, but from where I'm sitting women certainly seem more open to experimentation.

I totally agree with you here. It seems as though society is more accepting of girl on girl than guy on guy. So therefor, it's harder for a male to be more comfortable with his sexuality than females. Males are also taught to be masculine and conform into "manhood" at a very young age... And they really enjoy calling each other "gay" as if it's a bad thing. I know they're kidding with one another, but it may make things harder on a homosexual adolescent male to actually come out because of his homophobic peers.

 

[Magnolia Grandiflora]

Good topic.

Well first off, I can say that I've only ever been romantically attracted to men but I can definitely appreciate a good looking woman. I've never had sex because I always thought guys in high school were too talkative and immature to have a truly physical relationship with without everyone and their grandmother finding out about it. Not to mention that I'd like to actually love the person I do end up being with and I haven't had a relationship that emotionally powerful yet. From my limited fooling around, though, I can honestly say that I don't get sexually stimulated like my friends have spoken about and getting me "hot" takes quite a bit of effort. I've also never really had a desire to do anything other than lightly fool around, whether or not that's because I'm just not interested in sex or just because I haven't met anyone I've wanted to have sex with has yet to be seen.

 

[Storyofmylife]

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I feel the same to an extent. I have a weird thing about hygiene and that's probably why I haven't had sex with a female or male yet. I've heard horror stories about ladies... and well to put it bluntly, going down on them. The thought of that area smelling weird or bad makes me kind of sick. So, I guess I'd make the person wash really really well before I did anything with them. lol

As far as males go... Whenever I'm attracted to a male all my girl friends are like "You wanna suck his d*ck don't you? " call me a freak, but that's not what I think of when I'm attracted to a guy. I don't see how it turns my friends on, it's a sexual favor for the man, not the woman, but they say "Seeing them turned on is what turns me on." I guess I'm totally weird, but that's not a turn on for me.

 

[Angel]

Straight and only ever have been and will ever be. Not even remotely interested in the slightest fleeting notion of getting with another female.

 

[La Femme Fatale]

Straight and only ever have been and will ever be. Not even remotely interested in the slightest fleeting notion of getting with another female.

*snorts* Puh-lease. Angel's obviously trying desperately hard to conceal the fact she's super attracted to me. I can see through the smoke and mirrors, friend.

 

[KennedyKiller]

Well...I'm straight...I've been in a relationship for two years now, and I don't see it ending...That being said, I've also felt sexual attraction to mean on a few occasions...Now, one would think that'd make me bi, however, if I never plan to leave my girlfriend then I can't explore it to see if it's true or not...So, sexual feelings aside, straight...Then again, if you meet me, you'd think I was a TOTAL flamer...Everybody does...

 

[Genie]

Straight as rainbow.

 

[Silverback]

Straight, thankfully. Males are ment to be attracted to Females and viceversa. Thats how reproduction works.

There's a reason Females are born with that hole between their legs, and it's not so another woman can come along and dab their tongue into it.

 

[Steve]

I'd 'go gay' in a heartbeat for cheezmcnasty. Otherwise: straight as a die.

 

[Angel]

I'd 'go gay' in a heartbeat for cheezmcnasty. Otherwise: straight as a die.

Hell, we'd all go gay for Cheez. Or Scotty. Stuff it, I'll jump Tremor, LFF and Maggie while I'm at it for good measure...

 

[La Femme Fatale]

See! I told you you couldn't resist me and my unexplainable and infinite charm! Har har har